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Cliquey Goon
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Those weren't quotes around the word or anything.Porochaz wrote:
This isnt cheating. Cheating is something you do to get one up on another person by devious and hidden means. This relationship has neither devious (by the sounds of it) or hidden (by extension it sounds the exact opposite) tendancies.Cliquey wrote:"Cheating" into a relationship is like the #1 sin in my book. This just feels.... badI make accounts and PM people so they can feel popular and loved-
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Nah, Whether its honest or not I still don't like the idea of entering into a relationship. To use a metaphor, whether I get in by breaking in through the window or getting invited into someone's house, I'm not going to sleep in their bed and use their lavatory. Maybe its the comparison thing, maybe its the lack of absolutism. I don't know, if my problem was with honesty I'd also have qualms about cheating out of relationships, not just intoThestatusquo wrote:Cliquey, it would seem to me from your statement that, like me, your number one thing isn't really cheating, but rather "honestly," in this situation, and as has been pointed out by drunkychaz, there is no deception whatsoever, so I don't know that it can be labeled as cheating. I think YThill has been overall very honest: The top issues I see with his arrangement are the unspoken jealously that all humans feel when they see something that is in their mind as "theirs" being "used" or "possessed" (quotation marks because those terms are probably a little off) by someone else, and also the social stigmas that go along with such practices. I don't know that I would be able to make such an arrangement work, seeing as I can sometimes be a fairly jealous person, but if YT can get past that, then jolly good for him.I make accounts and PM people so they can feel popular and loved-
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shaft.ed wrote:
I clearly missed somethingCliquey wrote:free ticket to prostate stimulation, sure knows how to please a mantubby wrote:We also kinda of have the agreement where if one of us were to take a lover of the same sex then there would be no foul on the playI make accounts and PM people so they can feel popular and loved
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