Polyamory

Cliquey · Post Post #2 (isolation #0) » Sun Jan 31, 2010 1:46 pm

"Cheating" into a relationship is like the #1 sin in my book. This just feels.... bad

Cliquey · Post Post #18 (isolation #1) » Sun Jan 31, 2010 4:09 pm

Porochaz wrote:
Cliquey wrote:"Cheating" into a relationship is like the #1 sin in my book. This just feels.... bad
This isnt cheating. Cheating is something you do to get one up on another person by devious and hidden means. This relationship has neither devious (by the sounds of it) or hidden (by extension it sounds the exact opposite) tendancies.

Those weren't quotes around the word or anything.

Cliquey · Post Post #42 (isolation #2) » Sun Jan 31, 2010 5:28 pm

Thestatusquo wrote:Cliquey, it would seem to me from your statement that, like me, your number one thing isn't really cheating, but rather "honestly," in this situation, and as has been pointed out by drunkychaz, there is no deception whatsoever, so I don't know that it can be labeled as cheating. I think YThill has been overall very honest: The top issues I see with his arrangement are the unspoken jealously that all humans feel when they see something that is in their mind as "theirs" being "used" or "possessed" (quotation marks because those terms are probably a little off) by someone else, and also the social stigmas that go along with such practices. I don't know that I would be able to make such an arrangement work, seeing as I can sometimes be a fairly jealous person, but if YT can get past that, then jolly good for him.

Nah, Whether its honest or not I still don't like the idea of entering into a relationship. To use a metaphor, whether I get in by breaking in through the window or getting invited into someone's house, I'm not going to sleep in their bed and use their lavatory. Maybe its the comparison thing, maybe its the lack of absolutism. I don't know, if my problem was with honesty I'd also have qualms about cheating out of relationships, not just into

Cliquey · Post Post #45 (isolation #3) » Sun Jan 31, 2010 7:44 pm

shaft.ed wrote:Seriously, if you have to pee while you're in someone else's house you just hold it until you get home?

What? You don't?

Cliquey · Post Post #52 (isolation #4) » Mon Feb 01, 2010 6:48 am

Holy shiy IS!

Cliquey · Post Post #57 (isolation #5) » Mon Feb 01, 2010 1:54 pm

Really, you do?

This board is mostly male, I'm not shocked

Cliquey · Post Post #77 (isolation #6) » Tue Feb 02, 2010 6:04 am

free ticket to prostate stimulation, sure knows how to please a man

Cliquey · Post Post #80 (isolation #7) » Tue Feb 02, 2010 8:29 am

shaft.ed wrote:
Cliquey wrote:free ticket to prostate stimulation, sure knows how to please a man
I clearly missed something

tubby wrote:We also kinda of have the agreement where if one of us were to take a lover of the same sex then there would be no foul on the play