^ Dear Kanye,
Now that is a very excellent point. Indeed women aren't as powerless as *****SOME***** in this thread want us to believe (coughquilfordcough). Apparently women can actually DO something, unlike what *****SOME***** here believe !
I find the misogynistic attitudes of *****SOME***** here quite appalling really
In post 63, Korts wrote:hey hey hey i'm not asking anyone to think of men as potential rapists and neither is quilford or the author of the article
Basically yes you all are. Basically you are asking MEN THEMSELVES TO THINK OF THEMSELVES AS RAPISTS (and feel guilty about it !). And propagating women to think of men as rapists (who may or may not already believe that men are rapists).
we're saying that this already happens
Again, accepting that something already happens =/= actively propagating something.
and we're proposing a mode of behavior that puts everyone involved at ease
It does not put me at ease to think of all males as rapists (also not to think of myself as a rapist). And to be honest it's not going to put women at ease either really (which is the entire purpose).
so there are these people who are scared of you. getting angry at them for not having a tangible reason to be scared will only make them more scared, dude
No of course getting angry is stupid. By getting angry at someone of course you're making them scared. Anyone and their mother knows that.
But not getting angry =/= actively assuring every woman you meet of the fact that you aren't going to rape them. If someone asks me not to get angry and that's all then yes I'll oblige.
do you want them not to have this irrational fear? no? okay, carry on.
Is it
my responsibility
that women think of me as a rapist, or: is it a foreigners responsibility that everyone sees them as criminals? No. That's institutionalized sexism/racism/whateverism right there. And you are ACTIVELY PROPAGATING THIS INSTITUTIONALIZED ISM.