How does one be a more enjoyable Mafia player?

[talah]

You want to play with players you love until they're the opposite alignment.

And then this^

And then the same alignment and you can't get past this^


I really respect then main site crowd, who meet up, and don't care about previous lying and bullshit and emotional tracts and wins and losses.
I just don't know how to deal with it yet, but I have no problem with anyone here. And love/respect you all.
My understanding is limited :)