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Posted: Thu Jan 10, 2019 5:49 am
by Nancy Drew 39
In post 24, skitter30 wrote:Ah this is me

Nancy, someone asking you not to replace into their games in the future does not constitute 'harassment, bullying, or manipulation'. I didn't tell you not to sign up for games that I've signed up for - if I see you in the signup list after I've /inned I'll just /out; I'm not trying to limit which games you can play or prevent you from playing games you want to play. All I'm asking is for you not to actively replace into games I'm already in so that I don't have to rep out.

And if you wanted to discuss this it probably should have been done over PM instead of in MD, but whatever. And in a couple of weeks from now but whatever too.
I will play in any games I damn well want to and no one - who lacks authority - is going to prevent this. Because this was a GENERAL topic and not about YOU?

Posted: Thu Jan 10, 2019 5:55 am
by Nancy Drew 39
And I obviously disagree with that. Anyone has the right not to of their own volition, play or not play with whomever they like.

It however crosses the line, when one player takes it upon themself to in any way influence another player from participating in any game of their choosing, And yes, you do not have the right to make that request. I owe you squat. Why should I not play in any game I like, just because you or anyone else disagrees?

I would never ask such a thing of you or anyone else and yes, there are players, I would rather not play with and they know who they are but I’ll be damned if I’m ever going to allow myself to be pushed out of any game, I wish to play in.

Posted: Thu Jan 10, 2019 6:15 am
by skitter30
In post 26, Nancy Drew 39 wrote:Anyone has the right not to of their own volition, play or not play with whomever they like.
All I'm trying to do is exercise this right. I'm not trying to limit which games you can play or infringe on your right to play, but rather just trying to prevent unpleasant situations from developing.

If you'd like to talk about it more please pm me

Posted: Thu Jan 10, 2019 6:17 am
by Nancy Drew 39
In post 27, skitter30 wrote:
In post 26, Nancy Drew 39 wrote:Anyone has the right not to of their own volition, play or not play with whomever they like.
All I'm trying to do is exercise this right. I'm not trying to limit which games you can play or infringe on your right to play, but rather just trying to prevent unpleasant situations from developing.

If you'd like to talk about it more please pm me
I have no issue with you playing in any games with me. :)

Posted: Thu Jan 10, 2019 7:22 am
by brassherald
I think the important thing in this thread is that everyone has secretly blacklisted brassherald, right? That's why no one likes me?

Posted: Thu Jan 10, 2019 7:24 am
by Nancy Drew 39
In post 29, brassherald wrote:I think the important thing in this thread is that everyone has secretly blacklisted brassherald, right? That's why no one likes me?
Welp, I legit feel horrible that you found that out like this. I was hoping to break it to you more tactfullly.



:lol:

Posted: Thu Jan 10, 2019 9:22 am
by brassherald
In post 30, Nancy Drew 39 wrote:
In post 29, brassherald wrote:I think the important thing in this thread is that everyone has secretly blacklisted brassherald, right? That's why no one likes me?
Welp, I legit feel horrible that you found that out like this. I was hoping to break it to you more tactfullly.



:lol:
So, that's why you sent me a series of PMs that were just lists of the Black family.

Posted: Thu Jan 10, 2019 9:31 am
by Nexus
Is this about an ongoing game? Seems like it might be.

Posted: Thu Jan 10, 2019 9:49 am
by Alisae
Blacklists are great
change my mind

Posted: Thu Jan 10, 2019 9:59 am
by RadiantCowbells
In post 33, Alisae wrote:Blacklists are great
change my mind
Why fix what isn't broken

Posted: Thu Jan 10, 2019 10:02 am
by Alisae
In post 34, RadiantCowbells wrote:
In post 33, Alisae wrote:Blacklists are great
change my mind
Why fix what isn't broken
exactly
you can't change my mind
:dab:

Posted: Thu Jan 10, 2019 10:07 am
by RadiantCowbells
Alisae is great
change my mind

Posted: Thu Jan 10, 2019 10:25 am
by Alisae
I can't dude there's nothing to change :]

Posted: Thu Jan 10, 2019 10:50 am
by the worst
In post 29, brassherald wrote:I think the important thing in this thread is that everyone has secretly blacklisted brassherald, right? That's why no one likes me?
What's the opposite of blacklisting?
I would /in to a game entirely because you're in it

Posted: Thu Jan 10, 2019 10:54 am
by Creature
So what's actually wrong?

Posted: Thu Jan 10, 2019 10:58 am
by Alisae
In post 39, Creature wrote:So what's actually wrong?
Nothing someone is just salty because somebody doesn't want to play with them LOL

Posted: Thu Jan 10, 2019 11:09 am
by Creature
Hmm, I will like some drama.

Posted: Thu Jan 10, 2019 11:21 am
by Alisae
yeah me too d00d

Posted: Thu Jan 10, 2019 11:23 am
by Haschel Cedricson
If a player dislikes playing with you and you intentionally replace into a game they're already in then that makes you kind of an asshole.

If I'm modding a game and I have the option of replacing in Player 1 and then finding a replacement for Player 2 who will replace out when Player 1 joins, or the option of just replacing in Player 3, then the second option is best for the game as a whole and I'll take it every time.

Posted: Thu Jan 10, 2019 11:26 am
by PenguinPower
Do not discuss or refer to ongoing games.

Posted: Wed Jan 16, 2019 7:20 am
by Gamma Emerald
Want to add this real quick:

If someone doesn't want to play with you, respect that. Don't replace into games they're in, and more importantly, DON'T ENTER EVERY GAME. I recall ABR got shortchanged by a mod decision to take the other person's side despite that person being the one entering a ton of games. Had I been in control I would've given ABR preference.

Posted: Wed Jan 16, 2019 7:54 am
by Nancy Drew 39
In post 45, Gamma Emerald wrote:Want to add this real quick:

If someone doesn't want to play with you, respect that. Don't replace into games they're in, and more importantly, DON'T ENTER EVERY GAME. I recall ABR got shortchanged by a mod decision to take the other person's side despite that person being the one entering a ton of games. Had I been in control I would've given ABR preference.
I don’t respect the entire concept. I think it’s total bs.

:o

I didn’t realize this thread got reopened or I wouldn’t have made a second one.

Posted: Wed Jan 16, 2019 7:59 am
by Nancy Drew 39
In post 31, brassherald wrote:
In post 30, Nancy Drew 39 wrote:
In post 29, brassherald wrote:I think the important thing in this thread is that everyone has secretly blacklisted brassherald, right? That's why no one likes me?
Welp, I legit feel horrible that you found that out like this. I was hoping to break it to you more tactfullly.



:lol:
So, that's why you sent me a series of PMs that were just lists of the Black family.
:oops:

I hope the black and white lists, didn’t cause you too much distress?

Posted: Wed Jan 16, 2019 8:02 am
by Haschel Cedricson
In post 46, Nancy Drew 39 wrote: I don’t respect the entire concept. I think it’s total bs.
What is wrong with Player A not wanting to play in a game with Player B?

Posted: Wed Jan 16, 2019 8:06 am
by Nancy Drew 39
I can’t read that post, since he’s on my ignore list. He’s probably just calling me an “asshole” again for disagreeing with him. What do I win? :roll:

I probably should have just reported him for that, in the first place but I couldn’t be bothered to destroy any braincells reading his nonsense.