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Posted: Wed Jan 16, 2019 9:36 am
by Nexus
Blacklists are great. It means you don't have to play with someone who makes your life unpleasant.

Public blacklists are probably not great - you should take it up with the game mod rather than dragging your shit out into the open.

Posted: Wed Jan 16, 2019 9:37 am
by Haschel Cedricson
In post 71, Nancy Drew 39 wrote:I strongly believe player blacklists are a bad thing and an unnecessarily hurtful way of resolving these types of issues. The fact that other people want to be unquestioning sheep about this, doesn’t remotely make me wrong.
Okay, but if they are a bad thing, what is the alternative? It seems to me the effects of not having player blacklists is harmful both on the micro level - individual games suffer - and on the macro level - it encourages antisocial behavior, or at least fails to discourage it.

Posted: Wed Jan 16, 2019 9:42 am
by Nancy Drew 39
In post 72, RadiantCowbells wrote:of course you have a right to disagreement.

HC spelled out a hypothetical that wasn't referring to you or any individual and called the person who did a specific thing an asshole. not you.

i'm not calling you out for taking an anti-blacklist stance, I'm calling you out for making uncalled for comments towards HC about how he should be on trump's cabinet, etc.
He insulted me previously in this thread and via PM. I currently have him on ignore, because that’s pretty much ALL he did in our PM exchange was insult me, harass me and be rude to me. I will however trust your word on this and assume, he isn’t just calling me an “asshole” repeatedly, for disagreeing with him.

What you’re saying is really just splitting hairs, because as I said, I vehemently disagree with that “hypothetical”. I view it as emotional manipulation and bullying and I don’t think it makes anyone an “asshole”, when they stand up to bullies. When you think, someone is being unfair to you, it in no world makes one an “asshole” to stand up to that. I know you don’t see it that way but I do, 1000%.

Posted: Wed Jan 16, 2019 9:43 am
by Nexus
HOLY FUCKING SHIT

Posted: Wed Jan 16, 2019 9:44 am
by Nexus
In post 70, Papa Zito wrote:
In post 67, Nancy Drew 39 wrote:
In post 64, RadiantCowbells wrote:Nancy as your friend you are being an asshole to HC for having a different viewpoint on this and you should not do that.
Are you trolling here? :lol:

I’m not even reading his posts. Our PM exchange was painfully boring enough.

I ALWAYS want to have a different opinion from HC on any and everything possible, there is to have an opinion about.
I'm going to need you to stay on topic or this is getting locked again.
Zito pls

Posted: Wed Jan 16, 2019 9:45 am
by RadiantCowbells
Hey hold up

If HC is really spamming posts at her despite her telling him to fuck off then this is pretty clear cut harassment so let's wait a second and I want to see if ND did tell him to stop talking to her

Posted: Wed Jan 16, 2019 9:45 am
by Nancy Drew 39
In post 74, RadiantCowbells wrote:
In post 73, Nancy Drew 39 wrote:
In post 70, Papa Zito wrote:
In post 67, Nancy Drew 39 wrote:
In post 64, RadiantCowbells wrote:Nancy as your friend you are being an asshole to HC for having a different viewpoint on this and you should not do that.
Are you trolling here? :lol:

I’m not even reading his posts. Our PM exchange was painfully boring enough.

I ALWAYS want to have a different opinion from HC on any and everything possible, there is to have an opinion about.
I'm going to need you to stay on topic or this is getting locked again.
Sorry but I already told that player via PM, to stop contacting me and he continues to post here, practically stalking me but I’ll do as you wish.

I’m not really going to be upset if it gets locked though, since my point is clearly being misconstrued anyway. :/
Wait really? then yeah he shouldn't be posting in your thread and you should have communicated that sooner

mind sending me the pms between you?
Yeah, I had to ask him more than once to leave me alone and had to actually go as far, as threaten to report him. Sure, I can send you the PMs. Is that allowed? On some sites, it constitutes a violation of privacy to do that and it doesn’t necessarily extend to threads. However, it definitely makes him a hypocrite, doesn’t it?

Posted: Wed Jan 16, 2019 9:47 am
by Papa Zito
MD isn't the place to air grievances with another user. Use the report function or take it to PMs.