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Nancy Drew mafia Q & A/FEEDBACK thread
This thread is for anyone to ask me/comment on/give feedback on anything to do with my playstyle in mafia games you’ve been in/spectated/read and also vice-versa. I can also do the same courtesy for anyone who is curious about my opinion of their play.
Anyone is welcome of course to weigh in on any of this. Please be civil and constructive and as helpful as possible. Go nuts!**********We just need to tread carefully because if you slip up around her as scum she notices and will tear your spine out and slap you to death with it. (I'm slightly scared of Nancy)~the worst*******Nancy is pretty heavenly ngl~CheekyTeekyNancy-scum feels like a hot knife slicing through butter. Nancy-town feels like a magnifying glass in the sun glaring down at an insect.~Taly- Ythan
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I very much look forward to that.**********We just need to tread carefully because if you slip up around her as scum she notices and will tear your spine out and slap you to death with it. (I'm slightly scared of Nancy)~the worst*******Nancy is pretty heavenly ngl~CheekyTeekyNancy-scum feels like a hot knife slicing through butter. Nancy-town feels like a magnifying glass in the sun glaring down at an insect.~Taly- Bell
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dignity
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cognitive ... al_therapy
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Conflict_(process)
https://www.pon.harvard.edu/daily/confl ... s-it-work/
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cost%E2%8 ... t_analysis
Stuff like this usually helps me. We all have our own ethical and personal framework in seeing the world and what we're comfortable with. Planning out how we want to feel, recognizing what works and what doesn't work. Understanding what starts conflict and how to avoid that if we're not interested in the emotional burden or time commitment involved. Recognizing patterns and trying to choose a different approach and more gibberish like that.
I hope this is considered civil and constructive. My intent is to share some of what helps me get out of cycles or avoid conflicts that I don't want because of how it makes me and the other party feel.- Nancy Drew 39
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Thank you, that’s very helpful, I will check that out.In post 3, Bell wrote:https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dignity
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cognitive ... al_therapy
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Conflict_(process)
https://www.pon.harvard.edu/daily/confl ... s-it-work/
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cost%E2%8 ... t_analysis
Stuff like this usually helps me. We all have our own ethical and personal framework in seeing the world and what we're comfortable with. Planning out how we want to feel, recognizing what works and what doesn't work. Understanding what starts conflict and how to avoid that if we're not interested in the emotional burden or time commitment involved. Recognizing patterns and trying to choose a different approach and more gibberish like that.
I hope this is considered civil and constructive. My intent is to share some of what helps me get out of cycles or avoid conflicts that I don't want because of how it makes me and the other party feel.**********We just need to tread carefully because if you slip up around her as scum she notices and will tear your spine out and slap you to death with it. (I'm slightly scared of Nancy)~the worst*******Nancy is pretty heavenly ngl~CheekyTeekyNancy-scum feels like a hot knife slicing through butter. Nancy-town feels like a magnifying glass in the sun glaring down at an insect.~Taly- Nancy Drew 39
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I don’t know if anyone else but me has noticed this or not but due to a convo with a friend a few weeks ago, I was made embarrassingly aware of how unintentionally abrasive and confrontational some of my past posting has been. Now that I actually understand how it regrettably came across and as a result ineffectively communicates my true intentions I try to make that a lot clearer and veer on the side of trying my damndest to avoid offense.**********We just need to tread carefully because if you slip up around her as scum she notices and will tear your spine out and slap you to death with it. (I'm slightly scared of Nancy)~the worst*******Nancy is pretty heavenly ngl~CheekyTeekyNancy-scum feels like a hot knife slicing through butter. Nancy-town feels like a magnifying glass in the sun glaring down at an insect.~Taly- Ythan
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I had a very serious misunderstanding with someone I care a lot about where I unintentionally said things that upset them and suddenly it just snapped in my head just how often I have been unintentionally either abrasive or confrontational not only in games but probably everywhere, when there was really no good reason to be but thank you for saying that anyway. <3
**********We just need to tread carefully because if you slip up around her as scum she notices and will tear your spine out and slap you to death with it. (I'm slightly scared of Nancy)~the worst*******Nancy is pretty heavenly ngl~CheekyTeekyNancy-scum feels like a hot knife slicing through butter. Nancy-town feels like a magnifying glass in the sun glaring down at an insect.~Taly- Ramcius
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You have to be confrontational in mafia, but you need to know limits. From our few games i had really hard time having any discussion with you, cause you were so convinced in your opinions that anything I said you simply dismissed, so in the end I simply opted to ignore you unless I really needed talk to youTact is for liars and politicians.- Nancy Drew 39
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Which opinions in particular?In post 8, Ramcius wrote:You have to be confrontational in mafia, but you need to know limits. From our few games i had really hard time having any discussion with you, cause you were so convinced in your opinions that anything I said you simply dismissed, so in the end I simply opted to ignore you unless I really needed talk to you
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I do think that I could definitely have handled things a lot better though. Do you have any specific suggestions on how I could have done better?**********We just need to tread carefully because if you slip up around her as scum she notices and will tear your spine out and slap you to death with it. (I'm slightly scared of Nancy)~the worst*******Nancy is pretty heavenly ngl~CheekyTeekyNancy-scum feels like a hot knife slicing through butter. Nancy-town feels like a magnifying glass in the sun glaring down at an insect.~Taly- Nancy Drew 39
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I just want to clarify that while all feedback is welcome so long as it’s respectful, the main purpose of this thread is to hopefully receive constructive feedback and helpful suggestions.
So, please feel free to share any advice or insights about my play I may have previously overlooked. I will do the same if requested. Anyone is also welcome to give feedback on anyone who’s posted if the request it/have zero objections to that as well.
ETA: This also goes for myself as well as anyone else giving any kind of feedback.**********We just need to tread carefully because if you slip up around her as scum she notices and will tear your spine out and slap you to death with it. (I'm slightly scared of Nancy)~the worst*******Nancy is pretty heavenly ngl~CheekyTeekyNancy-scum feels like a hot knife slicing through butter. Nancy-town feels like a magnifying glass in the sun glaring down at an insect.~Taly- Ramcius
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Hm, you form reads really easily, but you're willing to die on the hill defending those gutreads for example. Another thing is that you shouldn't demand other people to townread you, it's for them to decide, if they are confident enough in their ability to read you. Leaving your friendships, personal likes/dislikes outside the game is a good thing too, not just because you might lose game for refusing to elim a friend, but also you may get in fight, because you defend a friend, or attack someone you dislike for no good reason and that'll might cause conflict with other people.In post 9, Nancy Drew 39 wrote:
Which opinions in particular?In post 8, Ramcius wrote:You have to be confrontational in mafia, but you need to know limits. From our few games i had really hard time having any discussion with you, cause you were so convinced in your opinions that anything I said you simply dismissed, so in the end I simply opted to ignore you unless I really needed talk to you
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I do think that I could definitely have handled things a lot better though. Do you have any specific suggestions on how I could have done better?Tact is for liars and politicians.- Nancy Drew 39
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How and when do you think I have allowed personal feelings to have influenced my reads? Can you give some examples of that, because I really don’t ever recall actually doing that?In post 11, Ramcius wrote:
Hm, you form reads really easily, but you're willing to die on the hill defending those gutreads for example. Another thing is that you shouldn't demand other people to townread you, it's for them to decide, if they are confident enough in their ability to read you. Leaving your friendships, personal likes/dislikes outside the game is a good thing too, not just because you might lose game for refusing to elim a friend, but also you may get in fight, because you defend a friend, or attack someone you dislike for no good reason and that'll might cause conflict with other people.In post 9, Nancy Drew 39 wrote:
Which opinions in particular?In post 8, Ramcius wrote:You have to be confrontational in mafia, but you need to know limits. From our few games i had really hard time having any discussion with you, cause you were so convinced in your opinions that anything I said you simply dismissed, so in the end I simply opted to ignore you unless I really needed talk to you
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I do think that I could definitely have handled things a lot better though. Do you have any specific suggestions on how I could have done better?
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Yes, I need to handle being wrongly sr better.
Also, I no longer deathtunnel and for quite some time now. I try to listen to others’ reads as well but if I am 100% certain, I’m usually not wrong.
ETA: Wrt to personal likes and dislikes, exactly who are you referring to? I didn’t have any grudges with anyone on that playerlist. Although I really hated voting Akarin but thank freaking God, I realized she was town, so I didn’t have to.**********We just need to tread carefully because if you slip up around her as scum she notices and will tear your spine out and slap you to death with it. (I'm slightly scared of Nancy)~the worst*******Nancy is pretty heavenly ngl~CheekyTeekyNancy-scum feels like a hot knife slicing through butter. Nancy-town feels like a magnifying glass in the sun glaring down at an insect.~Taly- Nancy Drew 39
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Spoiler:**********We just need to tread carefully because if you slip up around her as scum she notices and will tear your spine out and slap you to death with it. (I'm slightly scared of Nancy)~the worst*******Nancy is pretty heavenly ngl~CheekyTeekyNancy-scum feels like a hot knife slicing through butter. Nancy-town feels like a magnifying glass in the sun glaring down at an insect.~Taly- Ythan
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<3In post 14, Ythan wrote:I'm not even sure what you you're talking about (and no need to point it out to me!) but hey everyone fucks up it'll be fine. Sorry you seem to get so much stress here.
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