Elvis wrote:The nerve! The girl he had sex with him is texting! Even if they agreed to casual sex, emotions do sometimes get in the way... it's the risk you take, so you get the small annoyance of her attention for a while.
I think you missed the point. "The girl he had sex with is texting" is nothing I'd worry about either. When I talked about the trap, I was talking about how less-desirable people (or people who feel they are less desireable) will lie about wanting casual sex when what they are really after is something more. It's something to be careful of. Texting is a very, very, very mild idea of the potential problems that can come of it. Sabotaging condoms, lying about being pregnant, sabotaging relationships, and stalking are more serious problems that can arise from this, and there are worse things.
The way you made fun of her seems particularly mean-spirited...
Where? I know I exaggerated a little with that part about not wanting to die alone but where did I make fun of the mystery girl. I actually said there was nothing wrong with having sex with her, which is a lot more accepting than a lot of the other posters in here.
Maybe it's that you have a term for it "the fat chick trap" and a policy how to deal with it.
*headdesk* I already told you, I used that term spontaneously in response to the OP and successive posts that had given the mystery girl the title "fat chick." And, in hindsight, I saw that it could be offensive. My bad. I don't have a special term.
I think there's more at play here than what's been said. I'm not familliar with the body images many of you have but I'm going to venture the guess that if Rex was a 20-something girl and the obsessive suiter was a dirty old man, fat or not, that had gotten her drunk to sleep with her and now was texting her obsessively, some of you would have entirely different opinions. And, FTR, I pointed out repeatedly that "the trap" really doesn't have anything to do with gender or size, it's about self-esteem. I even said that men do it more than women.
Nobody's perfect and I don't like it when people get catalogued and put into boxes and it becomes "okay" to be mean to them or not care about their feelings.
Right, except she's not here and none of us even know who she is. Tell me, how does this thread hurt her feelings? I find it funny that you're playing white knight for the mystery girl but you're perfectly fine with people elluding to Rex being immoral, assuming he's too stupid to wear a condom, and explicitly calling him a tool.
Those
things are far more insulting than calling a fat person fat and he's here to be effected by them.
Oman wrote:With the exception of Latifa, they are not even close to fat. In fact that third chick is a very very very nice size, see those curves, I'd be on that in a flash.
Queen Latifa (Latipha, Lattifa?) is a very sexy lady, I'll give you that one.
QFT x10. I wouldn't consider any woman pictured in this thread to be "fat" except Queen Latifa, who is very attractive in spite of being overweight. When I say "fat chick" I don't mean plus size. I mean FAT. Latifah is on the small side of what I was picturing. (not posting photo examples, you're welcome)
If the girl Rex told us about looks like any of the girls in the pictures here, then he shoudln't have been whining to begin with.
Rex wrote:P S, why is it fat black women are considered more beautiful than fat white chicks?
It may have something to do with the typical AA build, which is thicker in the hips and bust. Girls with a frame like that can carry more soft weight and still look good no matter what color their skin is. Okay everybody, go ahead and twist my words so you can call me a racist.
