In post 183, Thor665 wrote:So now the issue isn't that I created a conflict
, it's that I made it somehow bigger than I needed to, when I could have created a smaller conflict?
Do I have that right?
Yes, that's basically what I've been trying to say this entire time
In post 46, skitter30 wrote:But since you framed it as a you-vs-him,
you've made this into an *issue* and a *conflict* between the two of you and are implicitly encouraging people to take sides by presenting the two options. Like you're forcing people to pay attention and pick a side.
Bolded: Because you framed it as you vs him, you made it a bigger conflict than it needed to be.
Italics: I don't like this because doing so had the ultimate effect of creating sides -> people were starting to choose between you and him, and multiple people townread you because of it (I've already shown this elsewhere) -> they chose you over him.
I think that by framing it as a direct conflict (ie in the quote from you that I copied above, you exactly paraphrased what I mean by 'framing it as a conflict' or 'highlighting the conflict') you set up an environment where people would ultimately pick to agree with you *or* him (again, because it was set up as a direct conflict between the two of you), and when faced with the option, people were giving you townreads and calling paradox scummy.
So, I think that this was manipulative/oppurtunistic because you took the oppurtunity to get townreads/to make paradox look scummy by forcing a choice (ie by higlighting a direct conflict)
And that is why I think this differs from 'basic scumhunting'.
Like I've been trying to get this idea across every way I know how and I don't know how else to say it at this point.
Misrepping. In your quote at the start of this post, I bolded a phrase. You're misrepping me there because that was *never* my argument, but you're framing it like I've suddenly changed positions when that never happened. I've been arguing the same thing this entire time.
And I think you're doing it on purpose because way back when, you said:
In post 49, Thor665 wrote:1. I voted someone to get somebody to attack me.
2. I intentionally set up the attack on me to obligate people to react to it.
3. I knew they'd be more likely to agree with me than whoever I argued with.
This is basically my argument (as I said before, it differs from what I'm saying slightly in that I don't think you *set up* the attack but that when it happened you highlighted the conflict to obligate people to react to it and that you know they'd be more likely to agree with you than whoever you argued with. )
Which means you understood then what I was trying to say so where on earth are you getting the idea that I've changed positions?
In post 183, Thor665 wrote:I actually think i do understand what you're trying to say - and I'm saying it's scummy and am trying to paint you into a corner where everyone else understands it's scummy also.
-> Given the first quote in this post, either you don't understand what I'm saying (and that's why you're arguing I've changed positions), or you do understand me and you're misrepping me (because I haven't).
If you understand me but are misrepping me, this is scummy for obvious reasons, and this is what I think you're doing.
If you don't understand me, then I don't think you're actually using this argument to *try* to understand me because when you hit upon the main crux of my argument you're using that to argue that I changed positions. Like if you were trying to understand me and you think I suddenly change positions wouldn't that be a hint that maybe you finally figured out what I've been trying to say this whole time?
I don't even get what I'm supposed to have changed positions *from*.
In post 183, Thor665 wrote:Please show me how I'm re-framing your stance exactly rather than just generically claiming I am.
^^^^^^^
You've done it in this very post, as shown above.
You've been doing it elsewhere and if you need me to I can make a seperate post about it.
In post 183, Thor665 wrote:Look at your current answer - "
Thor asked the question in a way that was more setting up a conflict than a less setting up conflict answer could have been
"
is a pretty long stride from your initial call against me
, and also pretty much is now implying awareness that what I did is called 'basic scumhunting'.
Bolded: That's been a fundamental part of my argument this entire time so I have no idea where you're getting the italics from.
And again, I think this is scummy (ie and differs from 'basic scumhunting') for reasons outlined in 46 and again elsewhere in this post
In post 183, Thor665 wrote:I've been very clear about why I find it unsatisfactory, yeah? if not, ask for clarification.
I don't understand why you find it unsatsfactory.
In post 183, Thor665 wrote:You're complaining that I gave you no "out" before even trying to fulfill the "out" making your prediction self fulfilling (though I feel you went that way because you recognized that you couldn't back up your made-up scum case hoo-hah.
Q: how is what thor did different from basic scumhunting?
A: he highlighted a conflict
when he didn't have to
and in doing so he created an environment where people were likely to choose sides, and in doing so, he got people to townread him and scumread paradox. He took advantage of a non-issue to get himself townreads and to make paradox look scummy. It's manipulative (highlighting conflict when it didn't need to be framed that way) and oppurtunistic to get townreads and make someone look scummy.
I've already said this like four different times, and why on earth are you not considering this an answer?
I feel like you're setting up an impossible bar for me to reach (and like you've already admitted that you're trying to paint me into a corner) because I've answered the question already multiple times and you're telling me I didn't, and you're using my 'lack of answer' as a reason to votepark me and to call me scummy.
In post 183, Thor665 wrote:I'm ignoring it because it's requiring me to be either
a) a mindreader
or
b) as scum to think that what I'm doing is pro town and seen as pro town and therfore something I'd do as town making it not a valid tell.
a) You can gauge gamestates and anticipate how certain arguments will likely play out and what the reception to your posts will be without being a mindreader. In fact, I'd posit that this is an incredibly important skill to have in this game. You're like taking a fundamental part of the game (gauging how your posts will be perceived) and stretching that to an extreme that clearly isn't possible (mindreading) to discredit my position of 'thor anticipated that people would likely agree with him over paradox'.
b) I don't understand what you're trying to say.
In post 184, Thor665 wrote:For the tl:dr of why Skitter is scum.
Initial claim is the first quote.
Clarified claim is the second quote.
It's the same arugment. I even used the same wording/phrasing because I don't know how else to express what I'm trying to say. You're saying I changed my position when I didn't.
In post 184, Thor665 wrote:She has not actually shown me encouraging people to pick a side in any way.
You've already objectively won the argument, remember? You didn't have to actively encourage people.
In post 184, Thor665 wrote:She has not questioned anyone else for setting up any sort of disagreement.
My point is that you highlighted the conflict when
you didn't have to
, not that any sort of disagreement is bad or scummy,
Where on earth are you getting this from? I've been saying that your vote/question are setting an ultimatum that I don't think is possible for me to satisfy. Or to translate, I think your question is unfair.
In post 184, Thor665 wrote:She has now agreed that there was already inherently conflict (indeed, it was created by the person she is claiming is town in this exchange)
I never said there wasn't ffs. I said you exacerbated/highlighted it.
In post 184, Thor665 wrote:She agrees that her best examples of how I could have questioned the player *also* caused conflict.
So her basic claim is, I asked a question that was a little more standoffish than it should have had to have been.
I didn't say that my examples didn't; my entire point with those examples was showing that it was possible to have a discussion (ie conflict) without making it into an explicit you v him type of situation. . Ie you framed it as a direct conflict ('I am right and you are wrong') when it didn't have to be a direct you/him thing (ie like the examples I gave). Yes, it was a lot more standoffish than it needed to be, and yes, I think the way you did it was scummy.
In post 184, Thor665 wrote:And she's doubling down on it as a valid issue to call me scum over this.
(and has now expanded to me misrepping her)
This entire post misreps everything I've been saying this entire time.
In post 184, Thor665 wrote:I would suggest that if she can't show me misrepping her that people should vote her more.
This post, repeatedly.